Graham Robinson

Episode 84 | Surviving Military Sexual Abuse: A Navy Veteran's Untold Story | Graeme Robinson

What happens when the experiences you survive as a young man continue to shape the rest of your life?

In Episode 84 of The Grey Man Podcast, Graham Robinson shares his deeply personal story of childhood trauma, abuse during his service in the Royal Australian Navy, and the lasting impact these experiences had on his mental health, relationships and sense of self.

Graham joined the Navy as a teenager, hoping to build a future. Instead, he describes experiencing physical, psychological and sexual abuse, alongside a culture where young recruits were expected to stay silent and simply “suck it up.”

After leaving the Navy, Graham built a successful career in business, even being named Salesman of the Year multiple times. Yet behind that success, he continued to struggle with anger, imposter syndrome and the feeling that he was never good enough.

In this honest conversation, Graham reflects on the connection between childhood experiences and adult behaviour, the long-term consequences of institutional abuse, and why speaking openly about these experiences matters. He also discusses his memoir, Until the Rules Change, and his efforts to help others understand the experiences that shaped his life.

In this episode, we discuss: • Graham's childhood, family environment and early experiences of feeling different • Joining the Royal Australian Navy as a teenager • Abuse, bullying and the failure of duty of care towards young recruits • The lasting effects of trauma, anger and imposter syndrome • Building a successful career while struggling with self-worth • The impact of unresolved trauma on relationships and mental health • Veteran wellbeing, institutional accountability and the importance of speaking out • Graham's memoir, Until the Rules Change, and his journey of reflection

This is a difficult but important conversation about the experiences people carry long after their service ends, the hidden struggles behind outward success, and the importance of listening to those whose stories have gone unheard.

🎙️ Listen to Episode 84 with Graham Robinson on The Grey Man Podcast.

Discover "Until The Rules Changed" by Graham Robinson and explore more of his story: 🌐 Official Website: https://untiltheruleschanged.com/ 📝 Substack: https://untiltheruleschanged.substack.com/

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